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Facing a career decision? Puzzled by a co-worker’s point of view? Struggling with a specific workplace dilemma? Looking for ways to improving engagement, collaboration, or innovation within your organization? Wanting to learn more about something I said in one of my books?
I’ll do my best to offer some suggestions, if you “Ask Tammy.”
Q&A: A Feminine Perspective on Leadership and Innovation?
Hi Tammy,
I would like to read more about leadership and management as well as innovation ideas from a feminine perspective. I have been reading a lot of Kotter, Hamel, et. al., all of which has been very inspirational and thought-provoking. However, I wonder if there are ideas of the same vein presented by women. Please advice.
Thank you,
SP
Dear SP,
That’s an interesting question. There are a number of extraordinary women thought leaders in the area, but I’ve never considered whether there is a distinctly feminine perspective on innovation and leadership. Let me offer some suggestions regarding people whose work you may enjoy exploring – I’d love to hear from you whether you find a shared point of view among their perspectives.
Lynda Gratton, a professor at London Business School (and, in the interest of full disclosure, a dear friend and frequent co-author) studies organizations that excel at innovation. Her book Hot Spots, based in part on research that she and I conducted together on team collaboration, outlines the characteristics of teams that have that special spark of creativity and commitment. She has written a number of other books on leadership; one of my favorite is The Democratic Organization, in which she outlines the challenges posed by today’s work environments.
Herminia Ibarra is a professor in Leadership and Learning and faculty director of the INSEAD Leadership Initiative. She is an expert on professional and leadership development and has written a wonderful book called Working Identity: Unconventional Strategies for Reinventing Your Career (Harvard Business School Press, 2003) that documents how people reinvent themselves at work, as well as numerous articles on innovation, networking, career development, women’s careers and professional identity.
Teresa Amabile is a professor at Harvard Business School. Originally educated as a chemist, she investigates how life inside organizations can influence people and their performance. Originally focusing on individual creativity, her research has expanded to encompass team creativity and organizational innovation.
My first book, Third Generation R&D, focused on building innovative organizations. Two of my recent articles, both co-authored with Lynda Gratton, address important aspects of this topic: “What It Means to Work Here” Harvard Business Review, March 2007 and “Eight Ways to Build Collaborative Teams†Harvard Business Review, November 2007.
Happy reading!
Warmly,
Tammy
Filed under: Leadership | Published: 05/14/09

Q&A: A Bad Boss—And a Damaging Performance Review
Hi Tammy,
I’m a finance manager and I love my work. But my company was recently been acquired by a large company and I was transfer to a report under a new boss. I soon found out this boss is terrible, he lies, makes up numbers and mean. I was so upset with his behavior that I got into a private heated conversation with him (argument). Now our relationship is damaged and he gave me a terrible review due to this. The company required that I acknowledge the review, but the things he wrote was not acceptable. I refused to accept the review, but he continues to asked me to acknowledge it. He’s my boss and I have to be nice, but the things he wrote was terrible and it doesn’t represent my talents, accomplishments or my truly contribution to the company. I can fight back, but it doesn’t do me any good since he’s my boss. What do you recommend I do? I thought about leaving, I though about walking out, I been looking for a new job but it’s especially hard during this time. I am not sure what to do next. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Mlletttle
Dear Mlletttle,
I’m so sorry to hear you’re having such a difficult work experience.
I can’t offer extremely specific advice based on the information you’ve provided, but let me offer some thoughts that I hope you’ll find helpful.
First, before focusing on your career, you need to consider your ethical responsibility to the company. Depending on how serious or widespread your boss’ actions may be, it may be necessary for you to bring his actions to the attention of those higher up. Employees who lie are never in the best long-term interests of an organization. Certainly, someone in the financial department who lies and makes numbers up would be a very serious liability. On the other hand, allegations of this sort are very serious. You need to consider whether his actions are detrimental to the ethical integrity of the company and how certain you are of your views and, if appropriate, discuss your concerns with others.
Second, assuming your boss’ actions do not represent ethical violations, let’s turn to your performance review. Most company’s processes allow the employee to add a note that expresses your own perspective. Is that possible in your case? Ideally, you should acknowledge that the review has been discussed with you, but also offer a short, non-emotional note that conveys your view of your performance. Perhaps most importantly, most review processes also include an opportunity to document next steps and development plans. This may even be an opportunity to get back on track with this boss, if possible, by outlining activities and metrics that you can both agree to.
And finally, it is probably wise to begin considering other options. In many cases, an acquisition imposes a different culture on an organization – one that may be very different from the culture that attracted you in the first place. At some point, it makes sense to decide whether or not this organization will be one that will engage and excite you. If not, you owe it to yourself and to the organization, to lay the ground work for moving on – not necessarily urgently, but determination to find a work environment that works for you.
Best wishes,
Tammy
Filed under: Interactions with Your Manager | Published: 05/13/09

Q&A: Comments about Past Articles—and Suggestions for Future Topics
Dear Mrs. Erickson,
Good day,
I just wanted to thank you for the wonderful & insightful information you post on the generational phenomenon. i AM a regular “customer” at your column (Harvard Business Publishing) and I have read all your articles since the 1st one on March 2008, i find it so very interesting and necessary to tab into the differences between generations, it is a vital key toward succeeding in today`s world of business and in life as a whole.
i`m at the end tail of Gen. X (Oct. 1979) and i DO feel i possess a lot of the characteristics of both Gen X & Y too!
I find what you write very true, born in a country with different cultural settings my self; i can see the importance of understanding “the other” .
I can very much relate to a whole bunch of the “parameters” for which Xers are known for (having alternatives ready at-hand / skeptical / not trusting the “system” ... + Yers (work place not necessarily being a “place” / learning as i go / urgency / ...)
I am in the HR function (TR + hiring manager) and i find what you write helpful indeed.
I was very pleased you wrote a piece on the differences between cultures (US & India) and that you intend to write more about the subject. (you mentioned you plan to write about at least 1 country from the middle east, my guess it will be Jordan “from where i was born) because it is the leading country in educational sector or KSA because it is the largest in variations and population. looking forward to that .
* thanks for your “ask tammy”
** thanks for your case study at the HBR Feb. edition, i enjoyed it a lot!
Keep up the fantastic work, tamara (my fav. cousin`s name is tamara )
Thank you kindly,
Haitham
Dear Haitham,
Thank YOU for such a lovely and enthusiastic note. I’m so pleased that you find the work on generational differences helpful. I do think that we can significantly reduce any tensions among the generations if we understand the logic behind people’s actions.
And I appreciate the suggestion of Jordan. I’ve been researching Saudi Arabia, but agree that Jordan is a wonderful example. I’ll try to write both—and would love any insights you might share from your childhood experiences.
Thank you again.
Warmly,
Tammy
Filed under: Information on Tammy | Published: 05/13/09

Q&A: The Growing Number of Older Internet Users—and Susceptibility to Scams
Tammy,
I have run into more of a personal generational difference for the first time that has completely thrown me for a loop (even with all the tools I have in my belt to understand the differences in the generations!)
As a member of Gen X, we are really experiencing the full-on “Sandwich Generation” squeeze right now. In dealing with my Boomer mother, we recently had an issue come up that she could not comprehend… Internet safety/ Internet scams. My children would think this is just crazy, others my age would appreciate that they are out there and we have to be cautious, but my mother just cannot comprehend that scams are out there. (This was the one that comes from a “lawyer” on “Lloyds of London” letterhead telling her that she has just come into $6 million.)
We all know that anyone who is slightly Internet-savvy can create Lloyds of London letterhead, even create an email address that looks like it is coming from them, claim to be a lawyer (or even better yet, just a real person) and convince people that it is all real. HOWEVER, as someone who only knows how to use the Internet to get email and order from Amazon, she cannot comprehend that scams like this could even happen. She truly believes that “if it is on the Internet, then it must be true” (probably as she believed that if it was on CBS Evening News or the NY Times, it must be true).
Do you have any research about Internet safety and the older generations? I would have to imagine she is not alone! How do we as those more familiar with the Internet let them know that there is a lot of garbage out there that can even hurt them?
Erinn
Hi Erinn,
I haven’t seen anything specific on Internet scams, but I suspect this is just the latest incarnation of older people’s susceptibility to scams of all kinds – phone, Internet, someone dressed as a repairman at the front door, and so on. I’m afraid just as we have to help our children understand the implications of their online activity, we also need to help our older relatives – or ourselves – become increasingly savvy.
It’s clear that your mother is part of a growing trend in terms of Internet usage. Today, women over 55 are the fastest-growing demographic group of social network users; 41% of all Boomers (men and women) have visited online social networks. According to a 2009 Pew internet study, more than half of all Boomers are online on an average day, and more than a third go online several times a day. Forty-one percent of Boomers say they go online just to have fun. The NPD Group found that 61% of Boomer Internet users in the U.S. have visited sites that offer streaming or downloadable video.
There’s no turning back – it’s time for us all to learn the Internet ropes.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Warmly,
Tammy
Filed under: Comparisons Among the Generations | Published: 05/13/09

Q&A: Tammy’s Presentation Cited in Forbes: The Challenge of the Changing Workforce
Tammy:
Thanks for your work.
Kenneth G. Brill at Forbes recently wrote the following in an article:
I have found Tamara Erickson’s Challenge of the Changing Workforce very interesting, especially as it relates to projected skill shortages in the workforce and generational differences between traditionalists, boomers, Gen-X and Gen-Y. According to Erickson, “Ys desire big important tasks ... but they don’t necessarily want your job!” They are “happy to do the task, but not the time,” and “they are not the slightest bit deterred by what older workers might perceive as a lack of experience or even limited qualifications for the task at hand.”
I tried to find the cited work and have not. Where can I find the article or book? Amazon did not have the title.
Thanks,
Bill Doran
Hi Bill,
The research that I’ve done on the generations threads through a number of the books and articles I’ve written. I’d suggest you start with Plugged In, which I wrote for members of Generation Y, but have had many older readers tell me they find very helpful in understanding Y’s’ perspectives and strengths. I also write about these topics often in my blog “Across the Ages,” which appears weekly on Harvard Business Press’ website: http://discussionleader.hbsp.com/erickson/.
“The Challenge of the Changing Workforce” is the title I frequently use for the speeches and workshops I do with senior executives. I’ve added the slides from a session I did last fall for the Harvard Business School Reunion classes to the downloadable documents on this site, and invite you to explore that, as well.
I hope that helps. Thank you for asking.
Best,
Tammy
Filed under: Comparisons Among the Generations | Published: 05/13/09

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